The stages of a life is an extra ordinary one it is a sequence of happenings and a series of events that unfolds and shapes our lifestyle. Our lives is ours to define and it’s our definition of how we perceive the world at it glimpse. Many has come and gone but many will still come and go. It is a hierarchy of life that certain things must happen to us for us to take our lessons out of it and make useful the happenings and derive a concluded definition of a personal experience about life.
Stages of life are complicated list of occurrences of which in it is embedded what we expected and thought we could turn into favour that we can benefit from, also in it is what we were not expecting which later occurred in our existence and turned into favour for us or into otherwise.
In this stages of life we see a lot and still bound to experience more. Each stage we find ourselves, we need to know that the particular stage connects the past to this present and also tending this present to cater for the future.
Our stages in life also depends on the choices we have made in the past and this propelled us in a cycle we find very difficult to get out of.
Follow me and let explore these three stages on a general view these are;
(1) THE CHILDHOOD STAGE.
(2) THE ADOLESCENCE STAGE.
(3) THE OLD AGE STAGE.
(1) THE CHILDHOOD STAGE.
WOW,this is the most interesting and most peaceful stage of life. This stage cater for when you were a child when you have no responsibility no matter how small. When you care less for all that may be happening in your life, when all you do is wake up eat drink play and sleep again, when all you know is that you are here for them to be involved. This stage is the only sure surviving stage the only stage you look up to people around you and smile for them to be happy. At this stage of Life, it is not about what you are but about who you are and how you live.
(2) THE ADOLESCENCE STAGE
This is the stage of self-discovery and adventurousness,it takes up the middle age of human existence. At this point a child has grown to an adult and now has to apply the skills learnt throughout the childhood stage. This stage is basically for the secondary school graduate and University undergraduates and graduates. At this point, we realise this is the longest phase of human life cycle where the young adult has reached a point of great independence, also in this phase of life the education is completed and the focus now lies on acquiring a good job to prepare for catering for family. At this stage we are always wanting to know what separates us from others. The curiosity helps us to develop and understanding of our individuality and uniqueness. The desire to explore life increases as our willingness to take risks. Most people get stuck in this phase due to the pleasure and excitement it entails. Instead of allowing there development cycle to unfold they stop to make that to happen thereby making individual not being truthful with themselves. We must know that at this stage everything you learn or you learn to do is a tool within the toolbox that you draw upon to get you through life.
(3) THE OLD AGE STAGE
This stage is the final stage of human existence, this stage deals basically with the fact that you have learnt all that is most necessary to survive life, the stage where you apply all you have learnt in the past to survive and to cater for your children. This is when you apply the wisdom of yesterday to solve the problem of today. At this stage you are basically a problem solver as you delve much into solving others problem citing experiences from the past and giving ways to making things right and make things in order. This is the parenting stage and it’s the most delicate as per the fact that what you have learnt has become a part of you and you use them in your everyday life activities.This is why at this stage there’s nowhere to hide the wisdom in one’s ability because if the body holds hidden wisdom we will need a way to gain access to that wisdom in your life. The guide on your part is your body for it does not lie.
Note that at every stage,patience provides the wisdom to proceed forwards at the right time and on the right terms.
In all the stages mentioned, none of it avoids or gives no way for changes to come into our lives. Let’s know that this world is a place to explore opportunity for the better.So if you know what you want to achieve in life then you are more inspired to change for the better and if there are things in your life you want to change you don’t change them from the outside-in but you change them from the inside out so patience is needed more since it provides the wisdom to proceed forward at the right time and at the right terms.